How to wear and use a butt plug and anal toys.

How to use a butt plug.

Before you've ever experienced a butt plug a very common to question is why anyone would use these in the first place. You've come to the right place as we'll explain how to use anal toys, butt plugs and prostate toys.

Men benefit from anal toys because they put pressure on the prostate gland which is directly linked to sexual pleasure. Women benefit from butt plugs because during sexual intercourse, it decreases the vagina's size and makes everything feel tighter.

Additionally, having the rectum stretched even the slightest bit helps to pass pulsing waves of pleasure from the pelvis to the anus and the tingling sensation reaches far beyond the vagina or penis, its spread all around the entire body. It's quite hard to explain how this feels, you'll just have to try it yourself.

1.) Lubricate the tip of the plug.
Any water based lubricant will do however anal lube is best; its thicker and is not as runny.

2.) Lubricate around the exterior of the anus.
This will help prevent the skin being pulled as the tip is passes through the sphincter.

3.) Spread the cheeks and insert slowly.
Sometimes pushing it in with a twisting motion will help.

4.) Insert until it reaches the base.
Depending on the style of plug you choose, this last step may vary. Please continue reading below for an expansion on the step to use anal toys depending on the style you choose.

Using different types of butt plugs.

The tapered butt plug shape is the quintessential design. It stays inserted easier without slipping out. A tapered shape means you can wear it during sexual intercourse without having to push it in all the time. With that said, the tapered butt plug is best for sex. Lubricate the plug and put some around your anus, insert the plug up to the wide base and leave it in place.




The longer slimmer probes are best for deeper exploration. Many people enjoy the feeling of a soft dildo inserted very far up. The best way to describe is "intrusive in a welcoming way". After you've tried it you can deduce your own conclusion but these are much more popular than you'd think. Mainly used for kinky foreplay together or masturbation being thrust in and out or jiggled back and forth. Not for sex as they will most likely fall out if you insert it and remove your hand.



The curved butt plug is for a man's prostate (although firm prostate stimulators do a better job then the soft curved anal toys). Women enjoy the curved plugs because they help "guide" the penis towards the g-spot during penetration. In the end, it's simply a new feeling compared to the tapered regular plugs. Lubricate it, insert and leave it in place. Curved plugs are the most common "second anal toy" purchased.




Prostate stimulators are very popular and are becoming very trendy anal toys for men. Prostate probes are more solid than any other anal toy but they need to be to press the prostate gland correctly. Men use these very often during masturbation, it is also possible to use them during sexual intercourse but you'll have to hold it in with your hand since they do not go in very deep and will fall out.

Go shopping.

Find all the anal toys listed in 3 different categories to simplify the purchasing process. Put your new sex education to good use and practice what you've just learned.